I can see why she'd want to keep believing that he isn't.
But it's not your responsibility to tell her that he is.
That's for her to sort out in her own time. And if she wants to keep on for a bit longer than everyone else, then she's got every right to, seeing as how close they were.
Maybe...
Maybe what she needs right now is for you to let her do things her way?
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Date: 2011-10-10 01:54 am (UTC)That is tricky.
I can see why she'd want to keep believing that he isn't.
But it's not your responsibility to tell her that he is.
That's for her to sort out in her own time. And if she wants to keep on for a bit longer than everyone else, then she's got every right to, seeing as how close they were.
Maybe...
Maybe what she needs right now is for you to let her do things her way?