And has he given any sign to you, the way he treats you, that shows that he thinks you deserve better?

I'm just saying that until we take the chance and ask him to join, it's always going to be a risk. And there's nothing he could do that would make it absolutely clear to everybody that it'd be all right.

So if we sit around and wait until we decide he's ready, or wait for him to take it upon himself to pass a test he doesn't even know he's taking, it's never going to happen. And he deserves more than that.